So Last Night I Rounded Off The Tab & Presented Her With The Account OwingJust an update to my previous story. Last Friday my wife had met someone at V8 Drive Race Day. I coudn't go with her as i had to work but i discovered her unfaithfullnes within three days of it happening. Refer to my Story My Painful Discovery Thank God I Have An Exit Plan.
After steweing on the discovery of my wifes infedelity all day yesterday i decided that when i got home i would confront her.
I am pleased to say that i took the Moral High Ground and remained calm but stern.
I originally told her that i knew what she had got up to Sunday and we needed to talk about it needless to say she denied it and started to try to make me feel bad with how dare i accuse her.
So after quickly realising that she would deny deny deny i went straight to the car and got the voice recorder as i was in no mood to play games.
At first she still denied it insisting it was not her. Than she went on a tantrum on how dare i spy on her and invade her privacy.
I stayed calm and informed her she could make any excuse she wants but she owns this. I also told her calmly you are mad because i know the truth and will no longer be fooled or obliged to support such an unfaithful spouse.
I truly believe that my calmness had shaken her up and taken her by surprise. She quickly realised that i was not playing around and that i meant every word.
I calmly informed her that this scenario was a deal breaker for me and i can now exit the marriage knowing i have done everything i can to salvage it.
Once this sunk in she pleaded for another chance, cut up her phone sim card swearing to get a new number, and even tried to seduce me and here is the bigge offered me sex every day for the next month as long as i reconsider and work it out with her.
I stayed true to myself and told her i had too much pride for that and perhaps she should focus her sexual efforts on someone new. Its amazing how she would trcikle sex to once a fortnight but than offer up an open tab.
So end of the day i told her just how much she had hurt me, that she owned her choice to be unfaithful and she now had to take responsibility for the consequences her choices bring.
I stated that when our children returned from holidays with her parents she is now a co parent and needs to contribute to the house hold expenses.
She made a half a...ss attempt in offering to move out so i called her bluff and said if she wanted to do that i would call Child Support and have them work out what she is owed. Surprise Surprise she turned me down.
Thanks to everyone for your support the response has been overwhelming. I have made the decision that i will just communicate as little as possible with her as she is extremely manipulative and let my lawyers deal with whoever she eventually hires.
Frustrated1978 31-35, M 16 Responses 12 Jan 21, 2013