EvasiveHusband stopped initiating sex and being sexual with me over the past year, he first tried to blame it on his age (37) saying he is getting older, umm (37) Im gonna have to throw down a bullshit card on that one. Which I did successfully when I caught him looking at **** with a visible hard on in the office. So ok its not that you dont want sex its just that you dont want to come after it from me. I initiate sex and he will say to me "see if you just keep doing that we wont have a problem" WTF? He gets angry and evasive when I try to talk with him about it. I ask him direct questions and he tells me Im trying to tell him how he feels. What reality is he living in? Im asking him how he feels, and he is telling me he doesnt know!? Is that even possible? The only real thing he told me was that he feels like its fake if we talk about it. I told him living like nothing is wrong and ignoring the problem feels fake to me. Like the world has no color. Black and white, no passion, just two roomates talking about nothing that ever matters.