Sex? No. Intimacy...not Much. I'm Trying To Deal With It The Best I Can.My wife IS going through a difficult time now, but that is not a major issue. Previously, we had not had sex for almost a year, because she didn't want to.
She told me that she basically has no interest in sex any more. We had sex 6 times last year. My second favourite thing is kissing. My CEO has never kissed me. She also doesn't like holding hands, or cuddling very often, or spending very much time with me. Sometimes she is open to one of more of the above.
This is hard on me....My favourite is Sex, then Kissing, then spending time together as a couple...and she basically does not want to do any of the three, hardly ever. My fourth favorite is snow sports, which I can't do very often, because of geography. And, my fifth favourite is a physical activity which I used to do with my wife, but she can't do it any more.
Oh, and this makes it even harder for me: She is more "sexy" now than she used to be. All she wears is thong underwear, and she always dresses to show off her figure, and she started wearing a really tiny bikini and very high heels when appropriate. All the guys have always wanted her, and it's even more so now.
So, I have been looking for female companionship elsewhere. I love my wife, and she is the best that I have ever had....the best body, the best sex, the best ********, etc., etc....but my memories of years gone by are not enough for me now.
I meet women here and there that are interested. I love my wife, and want to stay married, and hope that she will change down the road. So, I'm looking for women who will spend time with me, in one fashion or another. I like sex, but I also like walking around holding hands and doing stuff with somebody.
I cannot have a girlfriend, because I travel a lot, and I like spending time at home with my family and my wife, when she opens herself up a little (she isn't here now...she travels a lot, also, and is happiest when she is gone). So, if I was to meet someone that I liked, I would try and spend time with her every time that I was in her city. I realize that I can't be her boyfriend, so I have no problem if she goes out with other guys. If she has a boyfriend that is OK, too, as long as I am not messing that up for her and her boyfriend.
If things go more South, and we end up divorced (I hope we can fix things and avoid a divorce), I want to meet someone special....someone that I love, and that loves me....but I do realize that it IS harder with me as I travel a lot...and for some women it would not work, as they want their SO home with them every night.
7gj7 46-50, M 5 Responses 1 Jan 23, 2013