The Die Is Cast....i have just come from the atty's office. she's drafting the complaint, i signed the signature page & she'll send the full complaint to me for my blessing.
end result, the complaint will be filed with the court on monday.
i have homework: papers & docs she needs from me, plus i need to do as much snooping as possible re: his stuff to try & find as much as i can that won't eat up the retainer i just gave her.
i don't really feel anything right now. she advised i don't say anything to him until i have as much info as possible. that's going to be really rough.
breathing. (as Lao would say). and oops here i go...crying too. --------------------------------- update: the papers were filed with the court yesterday. once they come back i have really limited time to speak with him & arrange for him to be served. i am rather pissed my atty didn't explain this to me last week. but the paralegal said she'll work with me on timing. real reason i am updating is we had a conversation about the debt on sun night. i asked him did he get my e mail of the 21st, he says yes. i say when did you read it, he equivocates. i say is it fair to say it has been at least a week since you've read it? yes. you don't think i deserve the courtesy of a response? well my e mail is compromised he starts. excuse me? don't we live together? you couldn't talk to me about it? he responds i told you it will be taken care of. HOW? when? pay it off now, and close the accounts! well you can't just pay off ($xx hundred thousand) overnight these things take time. (no **** Sherlock) okay how much time? a few months? Years? eight more years? we have the rest of our lives. <<<<