It Was So Worth It For Me!
Hey everyone! I haven't been on this board for quite a while but just wanted to give everyone an update. I'm 4 months of 6 into my separation and it was totally worth it. Me and the W are still amicable save for a few incidents but all in all I feel lucky there's no mud flinging between us. It's great going to places and flirting and doing things as I please. Each day I'm more positive and feel great about myself and don't second guess the decisions that were made. It's almost overwhelming the amount of choices I have. I'm planning on going places and doing things I've always wanted to do with a fresh perspective. I know exactly what kind of woman I want and what I don't and know the warning signs so I know when to run. What was so funny was the other night we were talking and the tone of the conversation was nice..almost sentimental, then she went upstairs and I went to tell her something quickly before I forgot. She was talking to her son and I said I had something quick to say, she then said in an icy, condescending voice and holding her finger at me "wait I'm talking". Suddenly all those warm feelings went out the window. I can't say what worked for me will work for others but I am much happier than I have ever been in my life. Like WP says..I tread my own path and am glad. Good Luck all!