My wife and i I've been together 15 years and I still want her but she doesn't want me. We've talked about what she needs and I really try, more chores, wake up with the baby, but she doesn't try at all. There's always an excuse, no time, tired, i did something to **** her off etc. I want to please her but she doesn't want to be pleased. I've said i was going to leave but she doesn't seem to care. Couples therapy goes nowhere, she tells me to go because I'm the one needing therapy. I don't want to leave but what else can I do?