I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Interest Lost

By: naughtynude

Written on February 1st, 2013

In my case wife seems to have been from a conservative background & has lost interest in sex over the years. Right from the beginning we had issues with penetration . It was a challenge getting my penis into my wife's vagina .
A gynaecologist's suggestion to use KY jelly helped. But over the years it was only the missionary position or a *******. One she did enjoy though was having my penis in her hand while we cuddled & slept.
I still love her but being a sensuous & sexual person I miss the sex . I have not had sex in the past 3 years. :(
Sometimes I am tempted to have an affair (friends with Benefits). On a personal note I made a commitment to myself that I may ********** or explore but will never have sex with anyone other than my wife.
So no sex with anyone else but yes I have explored being nude in the company of other women & have indulged in mutual ************.

By: naughtynude

Age: 36-40 , Male

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naughtynude

Thanks for the advice everyone! Indirectly you seem to be wanting to hint that I am committing adultery & instead of being sensitive to my thoughts & feelings you seem to be coming across as trying to be sarcastic! If you think I am an adulterer you are free to think so ! All I wanted to state when I said "On a personal note I made a commitment to myself that I may ********** or explore but will never have sex with anyone other than my wife.So no sex with anyone else but yes I have explored being nude in the company of other women & have indulged in mutual ************. " was about WHERE I DRAW MY PERSONAL LINE! I AM NOT CLAIMING TO BE A SAINT! I JUST KNOW WHERE I WILL STOP! If that offends you or makes you feel I am being dubious, contradictory,etc. that is your personal interpretation & you are free to interpret the way you like . I am not inviting or trying to offend anyone . I am only trying to express myself .

Feb 3
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TheFullMoon

Just a little reminder... Clinton had once oral sex with Monika...but he did not count it as sex(for himself) ... I think you can follow his steps... Anything which is not PIV you can count as NOTsex... ************,69,all sort of nudity... yep... :) If you feel better, no problem... but tell you a little secret-the most of the people think all of above are belong to sex...
If you want my serious advice, your wife needs serious and long help of therapist and some self education, to start from something like this http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Dummies-Ruth-K-Westheimer/dp/047004523X
Very good luck!

Feb 2
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- naughtynude
  'The Full moon'- I am not delusional. Nor am I trying to act like Clinton. I think you are part of a group that is named '
  "I Believe Witholding Sex In Marriage Is The Door To Adultery". I guess you should understand that I am not expected to be a Saint if sex is being withheld. If you think I am committing adultery I will let you think that way . I am only saying that I have made a choice where I DRAW A LINE when I say "I made a commitment to myself that I may ********** or explore but will never have sex with anyone other than my wife." I AM NOT ACTING LIKE saint or have a holier than thou or a delusional attitude!
  
  Feb 3
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- TheFullMoon
  No problem! Everyone choose own way of cooping... Personally I do not see any virtue or holiness of staying faithful to sensually dead person... Good luck!
  
  Feb 3
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bazzar

You open with a couple of curious contradictions.
Is your dynamic one where it slowly got to where it is (as the story alludes to) or was it like that from the get go (as another bit suggests) ?
And what's with this "I won't have sex with anyone other than my wife" position when clearly (in your other stories) you have happy ending massages frequently with chicks other than your wife ? Or doesn't a hand job / mutual ************ count ?
Your position seems to have a curious mix of aspects that contradict each other. What do you actually want ?????
Tread your own path.

Feb 1
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- naughtynude
  I hope you do understand the difference between ************ & sex ? Being nude or indulging in ************ is different from having sex . I am talking about penetrative sex. No peno vaginal contact. I also have not had happy ending massages in years although I would love to. All stories are from a few years ago - just updated recently.
  
  Feb 1
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- mvcmvc
  How does you wife feel about your mutual ************ sessions with other people? Is she supportive of this activity?
  
  Feb 1
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- naughtynude
  She thinks I am just joking & does not believe me when I tell her about them.
  
  Feb 1
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- bazzar
  I think I know where your missus is coming from to be perfectly frank.
  
  Feb 1
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- naughtynude
  What do you mean ?
  
  Feb 1
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- Changewilldoyougood
  lol Baz.
  
  Feb 1
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