Why Not Have An Affair?

WOW! UP UNTIL JUST A FEW MINUTES AGO I THOUGHT I WAS ALONE AND I'M LEARNING REAL FAST THAT THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE IN A SEXLESS MARRIAGE. IT'S TRULY SAD THAT OUR SPOUSES WHO ARE SUPPOSE TO BE THERE FOR US.......TURN US AWAY LIKE IT'S NOTHING! I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOUR YEARS AND OUT OF THE FOUR YEARS WE FIGHT OVER SEX ON A WEEKLY BASIS! IT'S ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS....SO MUCH SO THAT I FINALLY HAD AN AFFAIR AND LOVED EVERY MINUTE OF IT. I DIDN'T THINK I COULD DO IT BECAUSE OF FEELING GUILTY, BUT THERE'S GOING TO COME A TIME WHEN YOUR NOT GOING TO FEEL GUILTY OR EVEN THINK TWICE ABOUT IT. WHEN YOUR SPOUSE CONSTANTLY COMES UP WITH BS EXCUSES OR YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR BEGGING FOR IT.........DON'T WALK AWAY.......RUN....AND RUN FAST. DO YOU REALLY WANT YOUR YOUTH TO PASS YOU BY? DO YOU WANT TO CONTINUE TO GO TO BED EVERY NIGHT THINKING ABOUT HOW YOUR SPOUSE COULD BE TOUCHING YOU AND HE IS NOT? YOU WAKE UP IN THE MORNING....GET KIDS READY...GET YOURSELF READY....GO TO WORK...COME HOME...COOK DINNER...LAUNDRY..ERRANDS....WHAT SATISFACTION ARE YOU GETTING WHEN THE DAY IS OVER? IT TOOK ME A LONG TIME TO COME TO TERMS WITH THE FACT THAT DAYS TURNED INTO WEEKS THEN MONTHS. I CONSTANTLY REMINDED MY HUSBAND THAT WE ARE NOT ROOMMATES.....WE ARE INDEED HUSBAND AND WIFE AND SEX IS PART OF THAT AND IF HE THOUGHT I WAS JUST GOING TO SIT BACK AND DO NOTHING ABOUT IT.....HE WAS IN FOR A RUDE AWAKENING. I AM ATTRACTIVE AND I WAS BEGINNING TO THINK HE WAS GAY. I PUT UP WITH IT FOR A LONG TIME AND IT WASN'T TIL LAST YEAR THAT I GOT TO THE POINT I THOUGHT ABOUT WHAT I WASN'T GETTING (IN THIS CASE LIKE MANY OF YOU.......SEX) AND I TOLD MYSELF THAT I WASN'T LIVING LIKE THAT ANYMORE BECAUSE THAT THOUGHT SEEMED TO BE THE ONLY THING I THOUGHT ABOUT..............I MISSED IT SO VERY MUCH. I SOON AFTER CONTACTED A GUY I DATED FOR AWHILE WHEN I WAS IN MY 20'S (WE HAD AMAZING SEX) AND TO MY SURPRISE......HE HAD JUST GOTTEN OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP AND WAS SINGLE....LUCKY ME :-) ............IN THE END....YOU CAN ONLY IMAGINE THE REST OF THE STORY.

FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE STILL IN A SEXLESS MARRIAGE....JUST REMEMBER........YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND IT'S NOT YOU....IT'S THEM. MY ADVICE TO YOU IS THIS................DON'T LET YOUR YOUTH PASS YOU BY BECAUSE THE PERSON YOUR WITH ISN'T WORTH IT! LIFE IS SHORT AND YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY,LOVED,APPRECIATED, RESPECTED, TOUCHED, ETC. HERE'S A THOUGHT.......YOU CAN WAIT YEARS FROM NOW WHEN YOUR IN YOUR 60'S...70'S...WHEN IT'S TO LATE OR YOU CAN TAKE A STAND NOW AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. I OFTEN THINK THAT THESE GUYS CONSIDER IT AS SOME FORM OF PUNISHMENT....A POWER TRIP TO KEEP INTIMACY AWAY FROM THEIR SPOUSE. YOU NEED TO TAKE CONTROL........MAKE THEM POWERLESS. IN THE END YOU WILL NOT REGRET IT. GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF YOU.