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I Live In a Sexless Marriage

He Really Hurt My Feelings

By: jenerfly
Written on February 4th, 2013
The kids were gone. I wanted to have anal sex. Which is so.thing I've only done a few times.as we were playing around getting ready his friend came over .at this point we had just got out the toys and the lube was on. Then he just said oh well my friends here now and stopped everything. Later on the same evening I caught him in the bathroom watching **** on his phone!!! He was jacking off! I was so mad I couldn't believe my eyes. I cannot believe he would rather jack off to **** than be with me. I am very hurt by this and now I feel like I'm not good enough for him. Men c an be so insensitive .
By: jenerfly
Age: 36-40 , Female
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7 responses
  • apprepcen
    apprepcen

    Communication gaps and misunderstandings cause many problems. Google the lyrics of the Pina Colada song!! Be honest with one another and talk about it!!

    Feb 5
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  • rgroa
    rgroa

    What man passes on anal sex? I'm not sure.where his priorities are but you should definitely have a conversation with him and explain how you feel

    Feb 5
    1 like
  • thomascan
    thomascan

    Truely unfortunate but I have to ask if you have made it easy or hard for him to approach you for sex? Too many women train their man by rejection to not make any advances and then get pissed when he does not.

    Feb 5
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  • bazzar
    bazzar

    Men can be insensitive.
    Women can be blind.

    Both statements are true, but it ain't gender specific.

    Tread your own path.

    Feb 4
    1 like
  • homewrecker13
    homewrecker13

    truly disheartening, it still baffles me that men can be refusers...what is wrong with people? i agree with the sit down, calm discussion...but don't let up, get some answers, and hopefully it wont persist.

    Feb 4
    2 likes
  • lonelysecret
    lonelysecret

    I feel for you. If I were you, I'd confront him calmly and just tell him that your feelings were hurt. Let him know you were more than willing to pick up where you both had left off before his friend showed up and all he had to do was come you and not hide himself in the bathroom.

    Feb 4
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    • jenerfly
      jenerfly

      It felt like he was cheating on me.

      Feb 4
      1 like