I Live In a Sexless Marriage
A month ago, Joseph Burgo on his website afterpsychotherapy.com wrote an article on Why Sex Matters:
http://www.afterpsychotherapy.com/why-sex-matters/
In part:
... It feels good to be wanted, to feel attractive even when we’re no longer young. I don’t think it’s enough in itself, of course; but when both partners strive to be real, open and honest in the non-sexual aspects of their relationship — to reveal their shame and let themselves be truly “known” — good sex can help keep the lines of communication open. In my experience, in relationships where sex eventually breaks down, it’s because the partners ultimately aren’t able to face their own shame, damage or limitations. ...
http://www.afterpsychotherapy.com/why-sex-matters/
In part:
... It feels good to be wanted, to feel attractive even when we’re no longer young. I don’t think it’s enough in itself, of course; but when both partners strive to be real, open and honest in the non-sexual aspects of their relationship — to reveal their shame and let themselves be truly “known” — good sex can help keep the lines of communication open. In my experience, in relationships where sex eventually breaks down, it’s because the partners ultimately aren’t able to face their own shame, damage or limitations. ...
Age:
51-55
,
Male
