I Should Be Grateful
I'm a new member, but I've been following the posts for a couple of weeks. I didn't realise that my feelings were justified until I read some posts here. My husband convinced me that most marriages are sexless and that I just expect too much. I still don't know what to believe because this isn't something people usually talk about openly. What I do know is that I'm not happy. Are SM's normal? It seems like all the advice outside this group takes the side of the refuser and vilifies the refused. My husband thinks I should be grateful. He sys that most women in my position would be grateful and can go withut sex if they're married to a good provider.