I Live In a Sexless Marriage
Happily married, need sex...but where to find it.
I wrote this up as a response to another story and thought it may be useful to men who are challenged to safely find sex outside of their marriage and which they ahve no plans to disolve.
You will want to be VERY careful whom you choose to be your extramarital sex partner. Here is my take and it is based upon my own experiences:
Situation 1 - Single women are usually looking for someone to take care of them. Some great sex is eventually followed by - "Why don't you leave your wife" (for her), and when that doesn't work, withhold sex to encourage you to make a move because you will want more sex, if that does not work the approach is then somehow for her to - have the wife find out so you are forced to make a choice, or threaten to inform your wife, and finally if the single woman loses out anyway, her revenge is to tip off the wife in hopes MAYBE she will still get you to come with her anyhow.
Situation 2 - A Married Woman who needs extra sex, and she sneaks out to have sex with you. She may have as much to lose as you, but now there now there can be two sets of eyes and two suspicious spouses watching to see what is going on. You get confronted by a jealous husband - and get yourself into a serious situation, or worse. Or, the woman is in an unhappy marriage and is looking for a way to jump ship from her own marriage and now she wants you. (go read Situation #1 again - same problems.)
Situation 3 - You find a happily married "Hotwife" (one who is shared by her husband with another man), and so with her husbands encouragement she is able to openly enjoy extramarital recreational sex with a guy of her choice. In my case I even located 2 of my wife's prospective lovers and this is common). No one is sneaking about, its above board and all three parties are in concert with sexual fulfillment for the woman. In some cases he cannot perform and he wants his wife to have sexual fulfillment he cannot deliver. He is not involved other than to hear all the details of his wife's experiences from his wife. In advanced situations he may love sex too, wants his wife to have ultimate sexual experiences and he is present to watch, or if everyone is on board, it may be you two guys (you and the husband) pleasing the woman.
Which one do you like? I have done all three. I have shared my wife in #3 - and that one is surely simpler, it's less risky and fun for all (and unbeknownst to your wife).
My wife has had three extramarital lovers over the past seven years and two of the three I located on the Internet based on my wife's criteria for a man IF she were to have any extramarital sex. I found them because they made their needs known on line. I interviewed, selected each from 2-3 others, and then he and I arranged how she and he would first meet, and how he and I were somehow connected. based upon my help he was charming and well prepared to seduce my wife over the next few months. Soon nature takes over and they go on to have many nice couplings.
I wrote this up as a response to another story and thought it may be useful to men who are challenged to safely find sex outside of their marriage and which they ahve no plans to disolve.
You will want to be VERY careful whom you choose to be your extramarital sex partner. Here is my take and it is ba
Situation 1 - Single women are usually looking for someone to take care of them. Some great sex is eventually followed by - "Why don't you leave your wife" (for her), and when that doesn't work, withhold sex to encourage you to make a move because you will want more sex, if that does not work the approach is then somehow for her to - have the wife find out so you are forced to make a choice, or threaten to inform your wife, and finally if the single woman loses out anyway, her revenge is to tip off the wife in hopes MAYBE she will still get you to come with her anyhow.
Situation 2 - A Married Woman who needs extra sex, and she sneaks out to have sex with you. She may have as much to lose as you, but now there now there can be two sets of eyes and two suspicious spouses watching to see what is going on. You get confronted by a jealous husband - and get yourself into a serious situation, or worse. Or, the woman is in an unhappy marriage and is looking for a way to jump ship from her own marriage and now she wants you. (go read Situation #1 again - same problems.)
Situation 3 - You find a happily married "Hotwife" (one who is shared by her husband with another man), and so with her husbands encouragement she is able to openly enjoy extramarital recreational sex with a guy of her choice. In my case I even located 2 of my wife's prospective lovers and this is common). No one is sneaking about, its above board and all three parties are in concert with sexual fulfillment for the woman. In some cases he cannot perform and he wants his wife to have sexual fulfillment he cannot deliver. He is not involved other than to hear all the details of his wife's experiences from his wife. In advanced situations he may love sex too, wants his wife to have ultimate sexual experiences and he is present to watch, or if everyone is on board, it may be you two guys (you and the husband) pleasing the woman.
Which one do you like? I have done all three. I have shared my wife in #3 - and that one is surely simpler, it's less risky and fun for all (and unbeknownst to your wife).
My wife has had three extramarital lovers over the past seven years and two of the three I located on the Internet ba
By:
alleyes
Age:
66-70
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Male
