Wow , i never thought i could share this but here goes. The last time my wife and i had sex was 2-27-2005. Its not that i am a bad lover, she has always had a low sex drive except when she wanted to get pregnant. She was wonderful and always wanting more even when pregnant. How ever, when we decided two was enough, i had to develop fantasies. So i became sindee a slave to my hidden desires. She caught me ************ and became very upset and refuses to even touch me. She has seen me cross dressed and even suggested family counselling. She still goes , i quit since it does not help me. Not sure where this is going or how long i will hang on to an apparently loveless and sexless marriage.