Happy Marriage But No Butterflies

So there is sex, but it is not often enough, or it is because they only have sex for their own gratification? Is it because they need to learn how to satisfy their partner?

Great idea E,
There are so many people discussing the general topic of sexless marriages, but some are on one end of the scale and some are on the other. Most are probably somewhere in the middle.
I agree with you, that some advice given really belongs in a different subgroup.
There may need to be far more groups, under the SM topic.

No sex or bad sex there are more problems in your marriage than you think>just my two cents!

The one thing that I have noticed here is that there is quite a diversity of situations for people reading stories in this group: from those in hyper-abusive marriages that have been sexless for decades... to people actually having sex with their spouses yet missing the butterflies of a fulfilling sex life. The advice for those in one end of the continuum probably do not help those at the other end.

No Bazzar, this may be a good move. Now one can exactly meter the time to migration, and the volume of migration, from the new group into ILIASM, as your first milestone. :-) [Or perhaps a migration to "I am asexual"!]

I doubt that you are going to get bowled over by the traffic.

LlayneP's group "I Am A Christian In A Sexless Marriage" was the last 'offshoot' I can recall.

Tread your own path.

Is that a group for people who think "everything is fine except the sex"?