The Talk - Part 1Well...we had the talk. Well maybe not *the* talk - but definitely a talk.
This was the talk wherein I said: "I don't think any amount of therapy is going to fix the fact that I want to have a lot more sex than you do - because I think you're just wired to want less sex than me."
And she said: "What a relief to hear you talk about my sex drive that way. I didn't realize sex was so important to you - maybe I could figure out a way to have more sex with you because that's what YOU want."
And I said: "I really appreciate the offer, but I don't think that's the kind of sex I want."
And she said: "I can't believe you would give up everything we have...because of SEX."
And I said: "I know you can't."
So that's where we are today.