Small Update From Opposite LandSo last night I got in a fight with my lover. As I started to retreat, which is what I am used to, he says, "No, tell me why you are mad". I explain why I am upset. He explains why he is upset. We acknowledge each others point of view. We discuss it and come to a compromise.
Is this how normal people interact with each other? No one stomps off and refuses to speak for days? No one is left alone crying? There is no passive aggressive 'punishment' in the works? I really could get used to this.