Another Short UpdateThe other day, my wife admitted to me that she's come to realize her issues with sex are "mental," as opposed to "physical."
Even a month ago, I would have felt relief - for a part of me, it would have been nice to hear her say that our sexlessness is not a result of something between us in our relationship - that she is finally taking responsibility for her own libido.
But I'm not relieved - I feel angry - like I've been used, or duped. I know this isn't rational - she didn't really have much awareness of this issue until recently, so she couldn't have done anything differently. But I feel bad just the same.
Anyway...today I'm just looking for support and sympathy - no need for anyone to try to "fix" the situation for me - because it can't be fixed.