Just An UpdateI have not spent a lot of time here lately. I have been coasting along some days better than others. I have been working my exit plan. I have to say I am both proud and excited to say I have gotten all the big bills paid off except the house. We have a few little things that our tax return will take care of. All I have to go is get some money together for rent ect. I want a little extra just in case. My dilemma is this do I tell him I want a divorce and move upstairs until I find an apartment in case he decides to take off and stick me with the house? In which case I would probably do a deed in lieu of foreclosure and live here for free until I have to move out save up money. Or do I find and lease an apartment and then tell him? The time is fast approaching can not wait to be free and happy but telling him and the drama is going to be horrible.
sweetnfeisty65 46-50, F 3 Responses 0 Feb 17, 2013