I Live In a Sexless Marriage
Remembering When We Didn't Live In A Sm......and Lessons Along The Way....
By:
nuttymontgomery
Written on February 19th, 2013
Tonight, I was having a good time laughing at some silly story and remembered what it was like a long time ago....you know, like the fairy tales start out.... Once Upon aTime....
...There was a young boy and girl who didn't know what they wanted to do in life, other than spend it with one another... there were no thoughts of, "What will tomorrow bring, if I don't work all day and all night and buy that big fancy house and car, so we can keep up with the Jones'?"...No, there was only looking at the clock at work every day, waiting on the end to come, so that we could rush home be with one another.
A perfect end to a day, was being able to lie on the couch snuggling and watching a movie together....
Then, of course, you have the YEARS of training that you put in...which, there are no words for that....it's training.....sorry, that's just it. :) ............. That, is also, not something that you are aware of at the time, or anything that you plan on...it just happens....
...Like.... When you are newly married and your H calls & asks, "what's for supper?"
..you reply, Fish!..(his mother fried everything, my mother baked everything)..So, imagine his surprise, when he came home to the baked catfish on the stove...
He says, "What is that? THAT'S not fish! THAT'S not the way MOM cooks it!"....major mistake #1.... the whole pan goes flying out the sliding glass door......(response, "go EAT with your MOM, then!"...naturally...)
.....IT only took until EVERY single pan had been thrown out the sliding door, and there was no cookware left to cook with...that he FINALLY got it!! ... I tried to compromise in my way of cooking and, even if he didn't like it, he ate it and never mentioned his mother's cooking again.....
AND...they all lived Happily Ever After.....
....Just kidding.... Don't I wish.... NOW, we are working on, "Go to bed with your wife, because if you sleep on the couch, you may not be awakened for work in the morning" haha!
....& these are the days of our lives..... : >
...There was a young boy and girl who didn't know what they wanted to do in life, other than spend it with one another... there were no thoughts of, "What will tomorrow bring, if I don't work all day and all night and buy that big fancy house and car, so we can keep up with the Jones'?"...No, there was only looking at the clock at work every day, waiting on the end to come, so that we could rush home be with one another.
A perfect end to a day, was being able to lie on the couch snuggling and watching a movie together....
Then, of course, you have the YEARS of training that you put in...which, there are no words for that....it's training.....sorry, that's just it. :) ............. That, is also, not something that you are aware of at the time, or anything that you plan on...it just happens....
...Like.... When you are newly married and your H calls & asks, "what's for supper?"
..you reply, Fish!..(his mother fried everything, my mother baked everything)..So, imagine his surprise, when he came home to the baked catfish on the stove...
He says, "What is that? THAT'S not fish! THAT'S not the way MOM cooks it!"....major mistake #1.... the whole pan goes flying out the sliding glass door......(response, "go EAT with your MOM, then!"...naturally...)
.....IT only took until EVERY single pan had been thrown out the sliding door, and there was no cookware left to cook with...that he FINALLY got it!! ... I tried to compromise in my way of cooking and, even if he didn't like it, he ate it and never mentioned his mother's cooking again.....
AND...they all lived Happily Ever After.....
....Just kidding.... Don't I wish.... NOW, we are working on, "Go to bed with your wife, because if you sleep on the couch, you may not be awakened for work in the morning" haha!
....& these are the days of our lives..... : >
By:
nuttymontgomery
Age:
41-45
,
Female
