LostI never thought I would be writing this story.
We have been married for over twenty years and have had a solid marriage, but over the last year it has sunk to an all time low. We do not have sex on a regular basis. I would say never but that is not completely true. Lets just say that it's been a really long time. We seemed to have seperate lives and we are more like roommates than partners in life. She spends alot of time with her friends which are mostly newly divoriced. And yes this does concern me. I spend time with my friends as well so I cant really say anything. We both say we love each other and somewhere deep inside I believe that we do. Maybe I am stupid to believe that but I do. Anyway there are times I want to touch her, kiss her and hold her but she has pulled away. I tried to initiate sex the other day and was turned away with the "I'm really tired" I try not to think about her having an affair but I am getting a gut feeling that it may be happeining.
I just don't know what to do at this point. Any rsponses would be helpful because I am lost.