Sex in my mariage is a one way road if it happens at all. My wife never initiates sex, never wants to touch or hold, This is my second marriage. This sort of thing did not happen to me before. When I was divorced I did crave sex. My new wife in the beginin g was very interested the first few months, then her desire drifted off. I know it is not me. I can go for hours and hours if I want pleasing a woman to no end. If I never intiated sex with my wife it would never happen. She would never ever miss it. Her sister is the same way from what I hear. My wife has never had a ******. You would think I am giving her a needle when we had sex in the past. I am guessing that I am so large that I cause her pain though she never mentioned that as a cause for her lack of interest.