I have never been "into" sex. I lost my virginity at age 21 and when it finally happened, I was left with the feeling of "What, That was it?! That's what all the big fuss was about?" So, I quit bothering with it. Sure, I had sex after that, but it was always the same. My friends all said that I just wasn't having it with the right person, but does that mean that I'm supposed to sleep with everyone until I find that right one? How 'bout NO. So, nearly all of my girlfriends between then and now have cheated on me because I don't care for sex as much as they did, and now that I'm married, my wife thinks that I don't love her because we only do it like once every 3 months. (Plenty for me, not enough for her) Sometimes, my wife feels that since I'm not having sex with her, that I must be getting it somewhere else. Obviously not the case, I just don't care for sex. So, is it my fault? Why should I be judged so harshly just because I have a low libido?