Same story here. My wife and I have been together for 10 years, married for 8. I am 52 and she is 61. She is on anti-depressants (for stomach condition) and talk about killing the sex drive. Kiss, yes when I get home from work (peck). We do lots of things together, LOTS! just no sex.....I think my drive (overdrive) is high yes, but hers is parked.