Well, Here We Go Again...

It's that time again.  I don't live in a completely sexless marriage; after all, we did have sex nine times last year (whoopee!).  But what I hate is this damn cycle of waiting.  First, we have sex.  For several days afterward, I keep thinking that maybe this will be the time that breaks the cycle.  Then the days of no sex start to pile up, and I slide back into despair.  I tried once again last night to initiate something and got ignored yet again.  It's now three weeks since we last had sex, and who knows when the next time will be?  I hate this.

cdc1963 cdc1963
46-50, M
3 Responses Feb 14, 2009

If my husband treated me like this when we wer only dating, I would not have married him. NO WAY!

Same thing happens to me. My guy just makes excuses. We make deals to get my needs met and he breaks them. I am sad and it hurts. I never knew how important sex was to me until this relationship. We are engaged and I don't know if I can commit to this. I told him I refuse to marry him until this gets straighted out to MY satifaction. <br />
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When we are on vacation he is a little horn dog and wants sex every day, but as soon as work starts up again it is like a desert. I pray for the oasis but the rains only come once a year. I pray that we can work this out. I am so sad on valentines day that I don't even want to see him today. He is asleep on the sofa and I can't face him with out crying.

Yeah that's just my like wife.<br />
"Stop hounding me. We just did it last month!"<br />
Oh well, I'm glad I'm not the one paying for this crap.<br />
She makes twice as much as me, but I take car of the kid and do most of the cleaning and all yard work.<br />
I feel really bad for the hubbies with stay at home, frigid, wives.