Indifference

Well this is my first post...10 years of marriage....wife never discussed sex....its getting boring.....since last 2 to 3 years I stopped initiating sex.....why is that I have to think of any variety...I believe if we discuss it we will be able to solve our problem.....but I have been waiting for years now !

deeplabs deeplabs
36-40
10 Responses Feb 15, 2009

I have both my daughters 27 and 30 living with us . 1 married with a baby . My wife hardly talks 2 me . The 3 of them R like sisters . I am about forgotten by my wife of 35 years . Communication would B great but I am out voted 3 2 1 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you for sharing.<br />
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I am 35 and my husband is 44 and I have a bad feeling things will not get any better for me either!<br />
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Hang in there!!

Thanks for sharing ....Well I am just 35 & my wife is 30 ... I think I still have hope...right ?

Thanks for sharing ....Well I am just 35 & my wife is 30 ... I think I still have hope...right ?

Thanks for sharing ....Well I am just 35 & my wife is 30 ... I think I still have hope...right ?

I wonder if this is specific to certain regions in the world or this is all across....I really think I should take up spirituality....but the material things in life keep pulling me down...I will keep trying....

I wonder if this is specific to certain regions in the world or this is all across....I really think I should take up spirituality....but the material things in life keep pulling me down...I will keep trying....

Marriage was once described as a" Roaring fire that will turn to cold ash after a time".This pretty much describes your marriage as well as countless others on this forum. If by coming here you merely substantiate that you are not unique in this experience and if you find some comfort in this you have accomplished something positive.<br />
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We all know the options to take to correct our sexless existances and some will take them and others will not for reasons that are clear to all.<br />
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All I can say is welcome to this refugee camp of the sexless ones and hope your stay here will be worthwhile.

Its not just abt the sex act...but every thing....you know life partners should share lot of things and discuss issues.... I believe communication should solve the problem....

I have been waiting 4 7 years , GOOD LUCK IN YOUR WAIT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!