My wife and I have had sex about 40 times in the last 10 years. Now that may seem like a lot to some, but loveless, sex without passion or intimacy is shallow and hollow.
Fast forward to 8 weeks ago. I get an email from my high school girlfriend. We broke up after I left for college and we lost touch and I haven't seen or heard from her in 20 years! She is divorcing her husband of 14 years and has moved back to town. We start catching up, its real light, we find our lives have been eerily similar, right down to our spouses and the problems we had been having.
As we are catching up, our feelings for each other start to come out. We are more open with each other, I feel more passion with her than I have ever felt before, and her feelings are mutual. Our calls and emails have been intensifying, and now we have an opportunity to get away this weekend, just the two of us. If all goes well, and these feelings are real, not just sex, I plan on leaving my wife and moving in with her. I have been so unhappy for so many years, I am not leaving because of her. I have planned on leaving after our daughter (9th grade) graduated and left for college. If I do leave my wife now, it won't be because of my HS girlfriend, but the timing of me leaving WILL be because of her.
I know this is wrong on so many levels, but it feels so right! So how can it be wrong? What are your feelings?