Im So Frustrated.....

Well ive been married for 23 years and i want sex all the time but my husband has gone off it and wont kiss me either.I lost 3 stone to make myself more attractive but its made no difference! its just sad.... and our love life is just none exsistant.I want to have sex so much and im thinking of going with someone else just to be satisfied.

trebormint trebormint
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8 Responses Mar 9, 2009

Madrid$ever, your advice is well meant and in most marriages it would work. But it probably WON'T work in a sexless marriage . . . those of us in these know this because we have tried what you say a million times PLUS everything else in the book, and NOTHING works.<br />
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I'm not picking on you here - I just want to reassure trebormint that the success of her marriage is not down to her alone. As the old saying goes, "it takes two to tango. . . .""!!

hi mrs its really ahard problem but there is no problem without a solution<br />
i advice u to make urself more romantic and to be the most beautiful wife (especially in the bed) because its the most effective moment between u and him and try to dally him

hi mrs its really ahard problem but there is no problem without a solution<br />
i advice u to make urself more romantic and to be the most beautiful wife (especially in the bed) because its the most effective moment between u and him and try to dally him

Same here...me and my wife have no sex left in life at all...the last two times, all she did was made her ********** and rolled over, I know feels like she is the man, but I dont know what to do.I am always thinking about it. Feels really low talking about it, but who the hell knows me here, so I guess it is ok. Of all the things in life, I am really scared of dying without enjoying sex. I am surely not looking out just because of my daughter. Once she is gone(which is not anytime soon), I will reconsider. But till then, the internets got to get to going...

hello trebormint.<br />
I recall a story by "sasha" that seems a bit similar to you, it provoked a fair bit of comment. Might be worth a look for you. Reckon it was about a week ago.

I've been thinking the same thing about my wife. If she gets this job out of state, I just may.

I feel your pain trebormint. About all I can offer is reading through many of the stories posted here. At least you will know you're not alone, and that the thoughts and emotions you're having are very common. For me, that helped.

Hello xo<br />
I think you should ask your husband why he doesn't kiss you aswell as have sex with you. It does seem pretty unusual. <br />
Be honest with how it's making you feel, and mention about how your love life doesn't exist anymore. <br />
There must be a good reason as to why he's rather distant with you. <br />
Fair play for losing 3 stone. But i am sure that the way you look has got anything to do with it, you pretty much said so yourself as you mentioned it made no difference. Ask him, you won't find out otherwise, unless he's hiding something from you. No harm in asking! xo