Want Sex

years ago my wife had a hysterectomy and when we could have sex again it was good for a while.  Then it slowed down to once a week.  Then it got to when I could get her in the mood.  about 10 years ago she decided that she didn't need sex.  I still want sex but don't get it.  I end up ************ in the morning.

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3 Responses Mar 13, 2009

I had a total hysterectomy 5 years ago. I am 48 years old. I am the one being denied sex. I would love for my husband to initiate sex but he has no desire. My libido is as strong as ever if not stronger. Toys only work for so long. Then you really need a mans touch .

I just had a total hysterectomy and I am a refuser. I'm working hard to get back into a sexual relationship with my husband. I hope I can handle more than once a week but at least 2 or 3 times a month may be a step up from nothing for the past 7 years.

Welcome 2 the club !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!