Sexless In St Louis

8 years of marriage, 3 kids in 6 years and I completely understand her desire not to have sex, but not even a hand job in the last 19 months is really wearing me...

tboniestl69 tboniestl69
41-45
5 Responses Mar 16, 2009

Hand jobs are gross. It seems to take forever, it is hard on my hands and elbows, then that nasty sticky cuming thing.

A Vasectomy won't help. I did that too in hopes to reduce rejection. It just got worse. Excuses like the kids might hear...headache....too tired....could go on and on....it will only get worse

How 'bout a vasectomy?

Having to choose between two crappy choices (suffering versus uncomfortable conversation) is a sure path to inaction.<br />
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Know that this problem will not just go away...confrontation cannot be avoided in this situation. It's time for truth and consequences.

Will she talk about it? If not go and talk to someone.<br />
I wish you luck!