Will Tonight Be the Night?gether.

 I have been in a sexless marriage for a year and a half.

 I am of Eastern descent, so my marriage was fast and sort of set-up. We have been married for 8 yrs and we have one child together. The marriage was great, the sex was great...then my child was born, and I felt my husband distant himself. 

He started working nights 2 yrs ago....comes home around 2 am daily. Claimed that the morning light through our window was too bright, so he started sleeping in the guest bedroom. Sometimes I'd smell alcohol on him when he comes home from work, but he says I'm imagining things.

I figured since he was not interested in sex, perhaps he was having an affair. So I started snooping through his stuff to find an answer....something I can blame. A receipt for mid-afternoon meal at a ***** club..."A client really wanted to try the food there...I had to go with him..." Credit card bill with a transaction to a club during a day/time he was supposed to be at work..."that must be some kind of credit card mistake..."One day, I appeared at his work site, and he wasn't there, so I called him on his cell and he stated "I am busy at work, what's going on?"...

 

Four months ago, I told him I was leaving him. I was tired of playing cat and mouse. I was tired of having strangers compliment me, make advances at me...while my husband treated me a like sister....

He begged me for another chance. He was going to move back into our bedroom. He was going to see a urologist (blames the "problem" on stress). Blah...Blah...long story short...four months later, nothing has changed.

I love him, and I hate to break up our family. But he is obviously bored w/ what he has at home....so why is he holding on to me? 

I am waiting for him to come home..tonight will probably be the night...

Wish me luck and strength.... 

Destiny8 Destiny8
31-35
Mar 21, 2009