People in a sexless marriage talk about wanting to have an affair to ease their sexual frustrations with their low libido spouses. What exactly is your definition of an affair?
If you don't love your spouse anymore and your spouse doesn't love you, shouldn't you just get a divorce or separation and end the relationship?
If you both still love each other but you just need more intimacy and sex in your life which your spouse is not able or willing to provide, is it an affair that will satisfy your needs so you can stay in the relationship with your spouse without as much frustration?
Does an affair have to involve love? Does an affair have to be a secret from your spouse? Can an affair be just someone you connect with physically like a friend but not an emotional replacement for your spouse?
I'm sure this subject will be different for everyone based on your own issues and situation but since we seem to talk about this a lot, I was just wondering what the definition of an affair is for everyone.