Wondering, How Many of Us Sleep In Different Rooms
While we are on this subject I would like to know how many here sleep in seperate bedrooms than their spouses.
I know my husband and I sleep apart and that has nothing to do with our mariage. I have abad back and have had multiple surgeries and cannot get comfortable at night except in my hospital bed sometimes, plus my husband has to be up at 5am and I have chronic insomnia because of my pain and if I am in the room with him watching TV or being on the computer I wake him up.
I know this bothers him at times and I have tried everything to be able to sleep with him but I end up just laying there thinking and that always gets my in trouble in the middle of the night. If I keep busy I usually doze off aomewhere around 4 am or so and if I got up and walked to the other room, I would awaken and not be able to go back to sleep.
So I am wondering, how many of us in this group, don't share a nightly bed with our spouses because of something like the above or because of other things like snoring, or moving around.
I am trying to change my habits and have been for quite awhile, but I always end up going back to the hospital bed that I can adjust to my comfort level.
Should I go in with him everynight and stay with him until he goes to sleep and hope I can sleep to, but wait till he is asleep and if I find myself awake, go back into the other bedroom so I can allow him to sleep.
Thanks for your thoughts on this.