Just Ended My Sexless Marriage -four Hours Ago
....and very positively. To recap: Sexless for three years, wife has anorexic tendancies, Two kids (her's by another marriage), civil and caring, but an unloving relationship.
[On the eating problems, we saw a nutritionist yesterday and she got a healthy eating plan that she can live with. The nutritionist asked if she was under any particular stress, and we both just burst out laughing]
She confessed that she did not love me or feel sexual attraction and that she was staying in the marriage due to financial dependency, partic for her kids college tuitions. She felt that we had a good life and would mourn it's passing.
I said we needed more than a good life, that we needed a right life and that we'd have to pursue that separately. She agreed. I offered her a very generous settlement, she was grateful.
I'll stick around for a while to give her some support and to help with some sick pet and house issues, but I'm gone soon -friendly and with love, but very, very gone.
More below about what I learned, because the fiendish EP server already ate this long post once already....