So my fiance and I have been together for 3 years,.....and basically our sexless relationship is my fault. I am a 26 year young woman, no children, have a great life, very attracted to my fiance, however I just can seem to WANT to have sex. I dont kno whats wrong with me. In previous relationships, sex was the main component in it. He doesnt complain, we dont argue about it, nothing. So its not like Im stressin out about. It seems in the last 2 years we have been together, when the lights go out and hes all up on me, I just want to turn over and go to sleep. I tried to talk to my mom about it, she says all women go through it, but I feel like theres something wrong. Im ready to see a doctor, but scared of what to say. "hey doc, um I just dont get horny whats up?" LOL...yeah that sounded pretty stupid can you imagin....Sooner or later Im gonna have to do something about this....especially since we want children one day....SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME OUT!