WOW This Is Messed Up!
I have been married for 19 years, the past 13 of them have been almost totally sexless. My wife and I have drifted apart and I am not in love with her anymore. We have decided that we should not be together anymore and I am preparing to move out. My problem is I have been close friends with someone at work for 10 years, we have developed a relationship and we would like to be together. She is also in a relationship which she has tried to leave, but her current man is a total psycho! The last time she tried to leave , he threw her down a flight of stairs and then threw a clothes dryer down on top of her. He broke her leg and put her in the hospital for a couple days.He says if she tries to leave again he will kill her! Can anyone offer advice on how to get her away from this abusive bastard so I can make her happy? Thats all I really want anyway, to be happy and share my life with her.