Wife No Longer Interested In Sex
My wife's attitude towards sex has been pathetic. It's been an issue of strong discussions and fights to no avail. I need someone to tell me if I am in the wrong track or if this is supposed to happen after 20+years. She's in her mid 40's, not in menopause, and I am just 4 yrs her senior. In the rare ocassions we engage in sex, she's really playful (anal, oral, etc) but it's getting extremely hard to convince her to have sex. She has agreed to all my fantasies, yet she doesn't play like she used to. We had sex almost every day before getting married, almost anywhere we could.
Most of the time, she just gives me a hand job and refuses everything else. We have grown up kids, all living with us. Like many, we're going through financial woes.
I don't think she's seeing someone else, an I haven't had sex with another woman for over 25 years. She's healthy, in pretty good shape so am I. We're both strongly family oriented and attend church. Our social life is fine.