Sex What Is That ?
I definately live in a sexless relationship.
Married for 30 years and have not had any type of sexual activity for six years. Not even any nice close or personal touches or anything.
My wife has never been a sexual person, and i knew this before we were married. So i didn't marry for sex. I married her for who she is. I have kept this belief all these years and tried my best to put up with it. But i must admit that i am now getting to the stage where it is becoming unbearable both physically and emotional wise. I don't want to leave my wife after all this time, but what do i do ?
I have tried the talking bit. On several occassions, but to no avail. She just keeps her head in the sand and doesnt really talk.
Can you believe that with 30 years of marriage that we have never once had a big argument. Never raised our voices at each other. We have had our little "tiffs" but neither of us are the type of person to create an unnecessary scene. Maybe that has been my probelm over the years. Just putting up with things instead of "creating a scene".
Who knows, but i don't think the situation is going to get any better. So i just dont know where i go from here.