Well, I never thought I would be sharing all of this about my sexless marriage, but I will. It's been over three (3) months since my wife and I have had sex. We've been married for almost 2 years now and things had been pretty good before thought. I was having some personal issues in which my wife had to deal w/them as well. Well, back in September, my spouse went to a training and one night she did not call me in which I thought she was cheating. She called me throughout the next day and was loving, but I was upset. When she returned, I was still upset and we began to argue almost daily. I take blame for many things. I realized that I was jealous and insecure. I didn't want to think I was, but I realized I was and even met w/a priest and counselor. Many of the reasons for me being insecure was she was car pooling w a male co-worker and I felt that they were spending too much time together. They no longer car pool because I told her on how I felt. She also bowls every Wed night w/three male co-workers including the one she was car pooling with. I don't have a problem w/her bowling, but would like for her to invite me every now and then. She tells me that that is her time for herself. At first I didn't like it, but I have improved on understanding that. She realizes that I want to have sex, however, she tells me that she is not having an affair, but that all the fighting for the last five(5) months have not made her to want to have sex w/me. Since the beginning of December,2009, our relationship has imporoved a bit. I realize it is going to take time to fix things and have told her that. I have told her I miss being physical not just sex, but her touch. She still hugs me in the morning and tell me she loves me. We don't have any children, but have discussed having children, but we both agree we don't want any children until we are in a better place. For a while, my wife was telling me all the fighting was pushing her away from me and to stop fighting. I have done and I could see that things are a bit better. I guess I just don't know when she will come around to being intimate w/me. I appreciate everyone reading this. All the advise will help.