Hi all, I just signed up and read some of the stories on hear and felt like sharing my story. I am 54 yrs old and my wife is 47 and weve been married 27 yrs with a son 23 and a daoughter 21. I dated my wife two yrs before we married and I remember that we had a lot of passion for each other and we had sex at least a couple of time a week for maybe the first two yrs of our marriage. The sex we had wasn't bouncing off the walls type but we both seemed to enjoy it and she was able to have regular ******'s. Then we would lay in bed and hold each other until sleep took us over. Then it seemed that gradually things started to change over the yrs. Now we have sex maybe 3 or 4 time a yr and my wife never has *******. Over the yrs she started to kiss me less and less and and the passion is non existant. Now if we have sex we lie in bed and she will give little pecks for kisses and will point her head up and away from me as if I have bad breath. I am a nice looking man trim and fit and she is a very pretty lady and is very fit and trim. We both execise to stay fit. So, over the yrs I have tried to talk to her about sex and it alway's ends in an argument. I still have a big sex drive for my age and it causes me a lot of anguish. I have never cheated on her and am reasonablly sure she hasn't either. I have tried to bring the passion back by making dates with her, like going out to eat then to a movie and a night in a motel with flowers and wine and the whole nine yards. i would leave sticky note with little messages of my love for her. We share the household chores. I clean the entire house once or twice a week,and I am a very good cook and have always cooked meals for my family. My wife does all of the laundry and pays the bills. I have been a good father to my children and have tried to be a good husband.
So, now what, well all I want is two things. First I want to feel desirable, and second I want to have sex with my wife and feel that she desires me. I desire her,she looks sexy,and has a great figure. I don't want to sound egotistical but I no I am a nice looking man cause I have had other women tell me so, even lately. I feel that maybe I am the problem. Maybe she just doesn't desire me. I can't make her desire me. Well I don't know what else to say now except that I havn't had sex in 3 mths and I havn't had good sex 25 yrs. If you don't have good sex once in a while and you don't feel desirable your not alive. This is the only life we get and I want to feel alive again!!!!!!
There you have it!