Is It Reasonable?

 Wow....I am glad I came to this blog. My husband was diagnosed with hep c...and his treatment thank God worked and he is hep c free...and this has been almost 2 years..and we have not had sex...we used to have great sex all the time ...we have been together for nine years and married for three. We met online and I was divorced at the time with three kids of my own. I was 34 and he was 44 and he worked offshore and since he was gone most of the time we could not wait to see each other again. But ever since he got sick and stayed home for a year and half he is not affectionate or ...even try to have sex with me.....and his childhood best friend and father passed away last year. He does not even give me kisses like he used to...I am so tired of this ****...I do not think we going to last...I love him so much ...but I love me more...am I being unreasonable?...This situation just adds more to my depression.

ninastressed ninastressed
41-45, F
4 Responses Feb 7, 2010

I have had counseling. I will call for an appointment for myself .

Thanks for the comments and insight on the situation. I will wait. I will never forget the amazing moments of love and affection we once had ...He is an awesome guy...but sometimes to laid back.

It sounds like he is depressed too. I think you should try individual counseling; both of you have been through some major stuff.

Maybe now he's well you should really lay it on the line about how you feel. Then if he does nothing, he knows what will happen doesn't he?