I Got My Friend Back Today

In a time in my life i never thought would happen, I got my EP friend back today, This is coming from a confirmed atheist I literally thanked god when i saw her email.

This Saturday At about 11:00 CST my spouse, whom i've struggled with for 15 years, finally told me the truth, she never loved me, she married me thinking she'd grow to love me, & staying with me makes her feel like a *****.

I have been kicked to the curb, i'm a guest in my own home, & i have never cried more in my life.

I have written a lot here in the past about being honest, building trust with your spouse & the effectiveness of good communication, i even had the balls to create a I repaired my sexless marriage group here on EP. I sincerely apologies now to anyone i may have given false hope to. It was all, 15 years of marriage & 5 years living together, Bullshit.

This morning i checked my mail, on the day i needed to talk to my friend more than I've ever needed in my entire life, she was there. she spent pratically the whole day with me, talking me through this.

I met  her here on this board.

I have valued her friendship & her honesty over that last couple years so much.

But today when i needed most, she came through in spades.

I'm truly honored to be her Friend

K

kq22 kq22
36-40
2 Responses Mar 3, 2010

How unfortunate to have ti find out that you have wasted so many precious years in this cruel manner.. However, it is pleasant to hear that this forum has provided you a friend of such value. I have found over the past year or so here that there are many very thoughtful and caring people willing to help in any way..<br />
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I do wish you well in this and hope that your new life will be everything you desire.

Hi kq22,<br />
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I know exactly what you mean.<br />
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It is amazing how we can meet our very special people through EP. <br />
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We throw a few words at each other, exchange thoughts and experiences and then something just gels. Whenever we are with them exchanging ideas merely with the written word they make us feel fulfilled and happy. We glow with that warm, comforting aura of mutual understanding and acceptance. Although we can only exchange virtual hugs these are somehow more meaningful than the occasional unemotionally charged contact we receive from our partners. <br />
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I am so glad you had a kind and caring friend on EP before your wife dropped the bomb shell.