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I agree with LostLeila and i feel like people take marriage as a joke almost these days because they can always just get a divorce and move on. I feel your pain as a women and a refuser because my partner does the same thing. I had a procedure done and that night he was asking to have sex well knowing that we could not. If i am on my period he complains like i chose to do this and it is my fault that i typically have painful cramps. Yet my pain means nothing because sex is more important. Sex sex sex is all he wants and asks for without ever giving me the time to want it from him as well. The weekend of my procedure i was in a lot of pain and had a fever. He complained and was so upset that i did not want to have sex with him that i did not love him or find him attractive. When i was just in so much pain ( I had an iud placement so my uterus was not happy ) and yet he expected me to have sex with him. Most of our conversations are about sex and that is it. He believes that we should be having sex 2 to 3 times a day ( where do i find the time haha? ) . I cannot tell you how many times i have wanted to have sex with him but then when i get to asking he starts demanding it which automatically turns me off. I hate the feeling that i am just some piece of *** and that is all he wants me for. Maybe for the men who have wifes who are refusing maybe you should make them feel like a women again. Like you love them for who they are and what they do. Maybe some appreciation is in order and let them be the dictator of sex. As a women i want to be appreciated and loved for who i am and not what i can give you. A little appreciation can go a long way and maybe that is all she needs. Eventually when all i hear is sex more then positive things then i no longer want to have sex with that person who just views me as meat. We are no going to counseling to work through this and get a better relationship together. I think with counseling you can save your marriage because marriage is worth fighting for.