There Is Hope For Sexless Marriages

Dear All,

A little over two years ago, I wrote about my sexless marriage and about possibly the end of my marriage.  Two years later, my wife and I are still married and now have sex at least 3-4 times a week.  We're best friends again and happier than ever.  She started taking yoga around a year ago and is now very calm and loving.  I write this to tell all that there is still hope.  You can read my original post that was written back in early January of 2008. 

chitownlonelyguy chitownlonelyguy
41-45, M
4 Responses Apr 5, 2010

Thanks for letting us know there is hope.<br />
Good luck.

It is interesting to hear that a few people seem to be able to get it back.<br />
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I'm sure you also know that no amount of "working" can fix something that was broken before it started. Some of us just take longer than others to figure that out. Not WHY it's broken, but the fact that it just IS.<br />
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I know you have the best of intentions for us in posting, but I am wary of false hope. One can waste a lot of years on it.<br />
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Best of luck to you in sustaining a satisfying relationship.

Thanks to all who commented. I was hesitant to post here again but felt that it was time to let people know that there is light a the end of the tunnel. I really hope the best for everyone. I love this forum and am thankful for a safe place to discuss our problems.

I am really happy for you. I also lived in a sexless marriage until last year. Through both of us doing a lot of hard work and talking to each other, we have regained our friendship and intimacy. We had never lost our love.