Not Entirely SexlessBF and I have been dating for almost two years now. For the past year we've been having sex once a week. That not horrible I guess, but I want more. I have told him I want more. I have told him a couple times I want more. Nothing changes. I'm beginning to resent him. I already have low self esteem, the infrequency of our intimacy only adds to it.
There must be a reason he isn't having sex with me. He says he's tired. My rational mind understands this. He works at a job he hates with a daily hour commute. When he gets home he just wants to relax, play some videogames, maybe have a glass of mead. This makes sense to me when I think about it rationally. But I don't always think rationally and when I move my hand down to stroke his naughty parts and get told, "You can try, but I don't think anything will happen," I just feel so inadequate.
I feel unloved.
I feel like he doesn't enjoy having sex with me.
I feel like he's having sex with someone else.