My Stbx Hoards - Any Advice?I live with a hoarder. YOu can read more of my stories on "ILIASM" here on EP, to get the background to what's going on.
Basically two kids, he's on disability, I lost my job 2 years ago and am a student.
We separated this summer, but he still lives in the ba
He definitely has organizational disabilities, which is not helping.
After a dozen years together, I gave him an ultimatum a few weeks ago: clear the ba
This got a better response, but it's still so painful. Instead of actually cleaning anything, he's buying storage bins and boxes. He still refuses to let me get help down there, even people he knows and trusts.
Does anyone have any advice? I live in Canada, are there any resources in my area?
zsuzsilowinger 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 Dec 20, 2012