There's Just Too Much **stuff**!
We moved in with my boyfriend almost 3 years ago, with only our treasures (22 boxes for 5 of us). He cleared a room out for all our stuff. In that time, I have found 3 boxes of old girlfriends personal stuff; receipts for cars that haven't run in 8 years; 38 boxes of his Dad's books; 17 boxes of albums; 4, yes, 4 complete drum kits; his 'lost' birth certificate...
I have half of a king size bed to sleep on. The rest of the bedroom is covered in clothes, movies, books, papers, dust .... stuff. The stuff is everywhere. I clear out spaces as I can, and it leads to some pretty unpleasant discussions. He thinks I'm trying to change his life, and I think he's not making room for me in his life!
I'm going at it slowly, because I understand hoarding. My dad is a hoarder, complete with aisles of old newspapers. Right now, I'm going at it like islands of penicillin! Eventually, they'll connect, and the STUFF will be gone!