My Life Belongs To My Alcoholic Mother.

I am an adult child of two alcoholic parents.  My parents are separated and have been for just over a year.  Approximately two years ago I purchased a home in my name because my parents' house was in foreclosure.  I did it for my parents to "help" them out, but it made a nightmare out of my life.  My father left after two DUIs and a criminal trespass charge.  He is in AA now, but I am stuck living with my mother.  She is terribly dependent, manipulative, hateful, and blameful all at the same time.  I am 28 years old, and I feel as though my life does not belong to me.  I cannot make decisions for me because I must always consider her.  She does not work and collects supplemental security income from the government.  The house I bought was to accomodate my parents, but it needs so much work I cannot sell it right now.  I feel so stuck.  It is difficult for me to make choices in my career and relationships.  I hate that I have given my life away.  There are so many details I could share, but sometimes I think, why bother?  The story gets harder to share.  I am sick of living in chaos and craziness.  She is mentally ill as well.  I wonder if my life will ever be my own.  I hate that when I am even older I will look back and realize how much of my life I gave up to her.