How To Deal With The Daily ChangesI have been dealing with alot of things in our relationship for the past few years. First on the list was the drinking. I thought all of our problems simulated from this. Acts of jealousy, ill tempered, thoughts of sucide, self esteem issues and so on. We have come along way, and I know we still have a long road to travel. I am willing to travel it with him, but some days... OH MY it's tough... and I feel a wreck cuz I don't know which way is up. It does seem he is self consumed and not one single person can out do him, or be better them him. I have heard many times I won't find anyone as good as me out there. It's not always bad days, there are alot of good. We laugh, we do fun things together - but when it's bad it's aweful.. and the more times I have to face the bad days the harder it is. I was full of patients love and understanding. If I talk to people for support he feels I am sharing our business. So that is challenging. I find comfort in talking to his sister but I build him up and tear him down in her eyes so it's not fair to her... I am just running out of options and feel I'm headed to a nervious break down if I don't find a way to get back on track. How do you talk to your spouse about the pain they are causing without them resenting you for it?
rhondac 41-45 4 Responses 0 Dec 8, 2010