Why Does He Always Run Away?....i have been with my fiancé on and off 8 years now.... i am 25 and he is about to be 27. we have a beautiful 7 month old baby girl together as well.
back when we first started dating and that we would be great and then he would just disappear for months at a time with no communication. i was young and did my own thing very popular and outgoing so it didn't bother me. but now that we are serious and have a child i don't know what to do or how to handle the situation. my daughter was PLANNED but when i was about 4 months he freaked our an ran away changed his phone # even. he would call when he felt like it PRIVATE. i was having complications and got in contact with him threw a friend and after emails and phone calls dealing with him in a manic state he did come back home for the delivery f our baby. he stuck around and held a job for the following 4 months. he has been interested in getting his CDL and did so. he then found a job as an over the road driver. he wasn't home as often as i wished but he was still meeting his fatherly responsibilities. when he was home it was great but as of last week i can tell he is having one of his "bipolar tantrums" as i call them. he is telling me we need a break he doesn't want to be with me ignoring my phone calls starting crazy unnecessary fights with and so on. i know he is Manic. when ever he isn't getting much sleep or is away from me to long he gets like this. and i becomes so much work to get him back "to earth". he is stubborn, acting all high and mighty, not sleeping (about 4says awake now), not on meds (hasn't been on meds in 7yrs), and this is just so stressful for me. i basically am a single mother to our child and i really want to make things work between us i obviously love him very much and i want to make our family work
i don't know what to do anymore or how to handle the situation
his mother is no help she lys for him and then tells him our entire conversation knowing that just upsets him more
my family doesn't understand and tells me to just change my # and leave him ......