Daddy Dom

What Is A Daddy Dom?

A Daddy & "Daddy's lil" girl" Ds relationship does not refer to the ages, of the participants.

A Daddy Dom does not replace one's father. He is however a Daddy.

This relationship is not about age play specifically and this relationship is not based on any need to have sex with children.

A Daddy Dom does have the ability to make you feel like a "little girl", however, a very cherished "little girl". It is a feeling that is like no other, it is the safest place a "little girl" has ever been, and it allows you the freedom to be all that you are without fear of reprisals.

Daddy Dom is a feeling, an environment. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides.
So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom?

A Daddy Dom is the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his creation.

To achieve these goals he relies on a combination of love, respect, and discipline.

His love for his "little girl" goes without saying. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her.

This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his "little girl". He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase its value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man but she chooses to be with him.

He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the "little girl" to really trust, she must know he means what he says. If his "little girl" is going to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.

If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.

This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.

A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive...acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesnt matter. To him she is beautiful.

Daddy Dom and sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many "little girl" because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship.

There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a little girl can understand.
DarkDomDaddy DarkDomDaddy
46-50, M
23 Responses Feb 17, 2011

This is perfectly expressed. Thank you

Thank You

After reading this aloud to Daddy, i softly leaned into His warm arms, sliding my hands around His chest as He completely enveloped me in Him.<br />
No other words were needed; He nodded softly in my long silky hair making me tremble deliciously as He unconsciously made that deep throated groan of contentment and i greedily and sheepishly inhaled the rich alluring, comforting scent of Him. <br />
i thank you, Sir - a lovely desc<x>ription, indeed.

thank you and my pleasure

@LS .. glad that you appreciate a DomDaddy ..

@ sexyceecee ... Thank you

thats beautiful..

@karnageSub well you are indeed very lucky

i told charlie to send you a friend request... she's great!

@CharlieUniform ... Thanks ... (methinks you are the blueberry yoghurt type) .. LOL

ahem... yes..... well written indeed.

thank you Hopefinding3

that was very good .. i completely agree..

@ SabrinaNYC and DaddyDomILINWI ... Thanks

One of the other best explanations for this I read from DaddyDomILINWI. I suggest any with a fascination, thrist for knowledge or a good representation of definition troll his blog and some of his stories.

Very well written and described. Thank you for sharing this.

Totally agree with your ideal... check out my intro blog.

Lets say .. it is an idealisation .. People are usually far from ideal ..

The Daddy Dom described has all the characteristics of a personal god. To be Sub to such a Dom would be a very seductive prospect, but surely the men to deserve that much respect are few and far between.

aww i love this :) i wanna be that little girl <3 .. very well written also xx

One of the better desc<x>riptions and explanations I have seen for a 'Daddy & "Daddy's lil" girl'.

Thank you

I love how you describe this.... I can feel your passion for it...Kiss

m ex was 55 and we had a big thing esp around me dres act schoolgirl along wit the punsihments for none compliance it was good<br />
in fact fantastic

Warm & fuzzy feelings bouncing around all throughout my body.... Sighs